Thursday 8 December 2016

Dance in Rotterdam?

Erasmusbrug on the Maas, Rotterdam

I had timed my visit to the Netherlands particularly for this weekend because, having seen the video for Encuentro Porteno I wanted to go not so much to that but to the regular montly milonga La Brjua organised by the same people, which is on a Sunday. Suddenly and with little warning it was cancelled but my flights and accommodation were already booked.  The cancellation must have been very shortly before the milonga as I had been checking tangokalendar.nl regularly. I wrote to ask if this was a regular cancellation in August but received no reply.  No dancers were sure why it was cancelled either and everyone seemed surprised. It all came clear when I visited the following month to what turned out to be a honeymoon milonga: the milonga host had got married!   

But what to do then that Sunday?  There was afternoon outdoor dancing with music by the amiable Peter of De Plantage (review) at the milonga in the Oosterpark (video) in Amsterdam but I wanted to hear different music.

Someone at the Waterlelie milonga (review) had told me about a milonga in Rotterdam. I was not very interested - Rotterdam being associated in my mind with heavy industry and shipping and an hour away from Amsterdam. My new Dutch friend though described the setting as one of the best places to dance in the Netherlands.  Since he travels all round the world for dance I was inclined to listen. I asked what the music would be like. Traditional, he said, decisively.

Still, I swithered.  Also at the Waterlelie someone else had told me Rotterdam was known for being a place of tango nuevo.  The image on the milonga website, which I did not see until later is a clue.  I didn't fancy that but the less I know someone, the more I like to check out those claims for myself.  I remember my friend, with twenty-odd years of experience in Buenos Aires shaking her head despairingly when I listened gratefully and still needed to find out for myself. Yet ought I jaunt off to Rotterdam when I had only just arrived and with this marvellous city of Amsterdam to explore?  But weekends away for pleasure are not about 'ought' but about doing just as you feel.  I was here mostly for dance.  Other things like Dutch culture - though they might and indeed probably did end up being the main event - fitted around that.

It wasn't until the Sunday morning itself that the recommendation and curiosity about the other city decided it.   Besides, I wanted to see the Dutch countryside from the train.  It is utterly flat by the way, very green, full either of cows in fields or greenhouses and all the fields are surrounded by water channels.  And no kidding, there really are lots of windmills.  I was glad to see it but once is enough.  In his book 'Why the Dutch are Different' - which I cannot recommend enough - Ben Coates tells that the reason the Dutch went from being one of the shortest people to one of the tallest in a few hundred years is apparently all that milk and cheese.  There is also an interesting section on Dutch character being related to the challenge of dealing with all that water.  Next time you're making for your connection in Schiphol recall that was once underwater and notorious for wrecks.  These snippets trivialise the book.  It is far more interesting than this, written in engaging prose which belies the youth of the writer whose eye is as much on the past as on contemporary culture and whose informed mind ranges over politics, religion, Dutch history, culture, regions, character and football. He married a girl from Rotterdam and lives in the city.

Just outside Rotterdam station

I stepped out of the large, airy, station and felt I had arrived in the future, so new and angular were the buildings. But the public transport employees that I met - in Rotterdam train station ticket hall, around the tram stop and on the tram could not have been more human and friendly. With civic-minded helpfulness the attractive tram lady - confusingly - gently mothered me to the right platform: I showed her my ticket. “Didn’t anyone tell you already you can get a card for all day travel for 7 Euros” she said, aghast at her compatriots apparent lack of attention to a visitor.  In fact I had just informed myself exhaustively about all kinds of tickets for future reference, but just hadn't decided my later plans for the day.

To find Wilhelminapier, head for the Hotel New York, well known in the area as the headquarters of the former Holland America Line from which many immigrants departed for America.

Wilhelminapier

I did not feel ignored or looked through in this city. People acknowledged one another. Guys looked at me which spiked my morale. I was sure that come a rainy Monday morning it would be like most other places on such a day and it's true attitude can make all the difference to how people interact with you but I felt merely open-minded.  Perhaps this though is what Rotterdammers respond to.  Right then this connection between people felt more than just a holiday feeling but if that's all it was, it was more than enough.

2 comments:

  1. It's usually good if a weekend doesn't go exactly as planned!

    I remember the first time I got out of the train in Rotterdam. It was exactly like that. Marty McFly getting out of his car in Back to the Future... You half start looking up to watch for descending cars.
    But then again... it has already been 2015!

    My experience with the people was not as flattering as yours, though. But then again, I'm from the south of Holland, and my accent is considered backwards in those parts, even though it is not very heavy. Reversely, the Rotterdam pronounciation of Dutch sounds very harsh to me, so I'm likely to misinterpret their intent. (Still, I'm married to a girl from a village just to the south of Rotterdam, so I should be used to it now...)

    So much different if they are trying to help a foreign lady-guest in English ;-)

    Now I come to think of it, in the Netherlands, and especially in the Randstad-area, it is very much appreciated if a woman can take care of herself. So I'm not surprised that an open-minded, self-assured, yet gracious attitude gets a very welcoming response. Much better than a fragile ceramic puppet!

    Maybe that also has to do with the history in and on the water... If you are a sailor in the 18th century, even a rich one, you need a wife that can take care of your family for a long stretch of time, not a show-piece to show of to the dukes and counts at court. It was a republic after-all. So the rich and the poor alike would share the same taste in this respect. But I'm just a mathematician who is just fantasizing hapilly along. So don't quote me on that...

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    1. Thanks Pieter! That's an interesting comparison with history. I do quite often meet people esp in the NL who talk about that idea of individual responsibility sometimes in strong terms!

      I can't figure out how much the Dutch are individualists and how much bonded by community. Dutch people tell me how individualist the Dutch are yet I don't feel an American kind of consumer-driven individualism. When I think of the local fireworks in every neighbourhood on New Years Eve - that's a strange phenomenon! Individuals decide to let off fireworks outside their house yet only because so many do locally does it become such a spectacular event. I suppose Halloween in America is a bit like that too.

      Then, the NL is a small country so everyone has to work together and historically did, not least to get rid of all that water. Community and tradition seem strong, especially in the south and in the way I heard it described that people collaborate over say Sinterklaas but the feeling I had is that some of those traditions may be slowly disintegrating.

      I suppose I am wondering then what defines or is behind this Dutch individualism, what it looks like. It's true I had a strong sense of everyone doing what is good for them, the idea of personal freedom while you do no harm.

      And wondering too about the strange relationship between being an indvidualist and the idea of collective effort.

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